Sunday, February 19, 2012

Dating Girls: Why Is It So Hard?

Boys, we know that you think that girls are so complicated, and unreasonable, and so difficult. But actually, we're really not. It's just that we have a different view at things from you. So here are tips that I think could help (because I listen to their stories, every single day, trust me. AND I am also, one of them.)

1. The Ghosts From The Past
Nope, not talking about The Christmas Carol. I am talking about your ex-girlfriends, or any girl you've ever interested in. This is a little bit tricky, you can talk about them, but don't praise them. Don't praise them, at all. Girls want to be better than them for you. And also, this doesn't mean that you must talk about them all the time, we're gonna think that you still have feelings for your ex. And NEVER, EVER, make your girl jealous with your ex on purpose. That's just mean.

2. The Unreasonable(s)
Yeah, this is the most common problem with us girls. You must ask this question a lot, "What did I do??" and we just can't or don't want to tell you. Probably because girls are too shy and too polite to tell you what's the problem. If this is the case, the first thing that you've got to do is check if she's on her period (pms) or not. If yes, just comfort her. Or, if you want to be the best boyfriend ever, go to her house & bring her favorite food/ice cream or movie (saw this on the meta picture :D). She'll calm down fast. But, if she's not on her period, then? you're kinda in trouble. The first thing you've to do is look back these past few days, think, did you do something wrong or differently? If yes, fix it as soon as possible, and say that you're sorry. If you can't figure out what's the problem, just be nice to her, and slowly ask her what's the problem. Slowly, and smoothly.

Okay, I think I'm gonna stop here now, I'm kinda tired. I'll post more about this later. Just...be nice to your girlfriends, just like Finn to Rachel, and Ted Mosby to all the girls he dated. Because she might be the best thing you've ever have.

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